At Balissande, we do not only refine your manners. We also refine your style, thoughts, and lifestyle. For us, refinement is an art, a savoir-vivre, that guides every aspect of our lives, and soon it will yours as well.


    Descendants of politicians; attendees of political, corporate, and art gatherings; hostesses of royals, presidents, and diplomats — Balissande is a team of professionals, the finest in the fields of etiquette, travel, fashion, art, savoir-faire and savoir-vivre.


    Gain access to lessons, links to private accounts, reviews, stories, recommendations, downloads, videos, discussion boards, and more - all perfectly suited to learning the art of being a refined lady.


There are many schools today teaching etiquette - each with their own level of quality and focus. Our school is high-quality, elite and professional. Our teachers and consultants teach a style that caters to political, executive, and old money lifestyles.


You no longer have to postpone college, quit your job, leave your partner, or send transcripts to attend a luxury finishing school. Online courses provide you the opportunity to study anywhere, anytime, at your own pace.


  • In what format are the courses taught?

    The courses are taught in written format with a few videos added for demonstration purposes. They are NOT taught via video presentations.

  • How are the courses taught?

    The courses are taught completely online and in written format. They are not podcasts or video classes. They are written tutorials that you can open and read at anytime and in any place around the world via the internet.

  • Why are our courses taught in written format?

    We use the traditional written format over verbal to teach our courses because we believe students learn more from written formats. But we also believe teachers and fellow students play an important role in a student's education. This is why we also offer students a chance to start discussion threads on any related questions and/or ideas they may have as they move along in the course. These discussions can be answered by both fellow students and teachers, if they so choose. We encourage students to contact us with any questions they want to ask privately. We also provide students exercises to apply what they have learned. This offers students even more opportunities to learn what they are reading and add depth to any discussion thread they choose to take part in or create. There is also so much more information, experiences, and tips we can share in written formats. We could never hope to discuss them all in a video. Most of our courses are very detailed, offering information you will not find anywhere on the internet.

  • Can questions be asked?

    Yes. We welcome questions. You can ask us questions by sending us a message or you can start an open discussion in which other students can participate, if they choose.

  • What is the advantage of learning finishing skills online?

    The advantage of learning ladylike skills online with Balissande Finishing School is that you can study it at anytime via the internet, anywhere in the world. You do not have to uproot your home for months at a time. If you work or attend university, you can continue to do so while studying with us, getting the best teaching the internet can provide. You can adapt our courses to fit your schedule, shortening or lengthening it. We provide a very flexible way for you to learn. The other advantage is online study gives students the ability to talk to students and teachers from around the world. This is very similar to the traditional schools of the past.

  • Can our courses really make a difference in your life?

    Yes, they definitely can; and in many ways. Ladies who display good manners and elegant deportment are poised and dignified. They impress immediately, engendering a certain awe, admiration, fascination, and respect in others. These ladies are graceful and confident, knowing the proper behaviour, mannerisms, practices, and dress codes needed for each event. They know what is expected of them, what is the correct thing to do and say, what is the most effective way to present themselves; so, they become calm, dignified and well-poised. This enables them to effortlessly mingle with the most cultured people; thus being welcomed and admired in the highest circles of business and society. So, in our courses, we discuss many things. We cover etiquette rules as well as techniques and practices that you can use to impress and achieve these goals. You will discover ideas that will change your life and the way you see society and wealth.

  • Are the courses easy?

    The ease depends on the person. The more knowledge you have on the subject, the easier it will be. Each subject contains many rules and variables. So learning them will not be a one day effort. You will need to schedule time to study and practice every week, just like with any traditional course.

  • Who studies at Balissande Finishing School?

    We have had students from around the world, who come with different purposes. Some come for professional reasons, looking for ways to distinguish themselves from the rest and advance in their career. Some come for marriage reasons, wanting to refine themselves in order to attract wealthy men, to help their partner advance professionally, or to gain acceptance from their partner's social network and family. And some come for personal reasons, looking to advance their knowledge. Whatever your reasons, we welcome you!


“It was a privilege to learn from the ladies of Balissande Finishing School. They were professional and helpful. Best of all, they were timeless. What I learned will last me for many years.”

Marie, Ph. DMarie, Ph. D

“I recommend the ladies at Balissande Finishing School. I finished my bespoke course a few weeks ago and am satisfied at the results. Due to the fact I am male, I didn't get the full service. I was only able to get etiquette lessons. I hope they will hire a man soon so I can also sign up for a deportment course. ”

Henry, M.D.Henry, M.D.

“These ladies really know their stuff. I left my course ready to re-vamp my life. What I liked the most about the it was not etiquette. I liked how they explained things. They don't sugar-coat the mess. They are real. ”

Michelle, H.R. ManagerMichelle, H.R. Manager

“I'm eternally grateful how you simplified etiquette and rich people for someone like me. Growing up we were poor. This stuff was not taught. Now I need it more than I've been able to admit to even myself.”